I don't believe isolation should ever be used. This is a touchy subject though like a couple people have pointed out already. The purpose is to encourage repetition of the desired behaviour. And even if you don't live in the U. She brings it to a grunge party and it gets stolen.
My First (and Last) Attempt to Spank My Kid
After they are both soundly spanked they are sent to Alex's room to wait for Harley's mom to come and get her. It may make them temporarily more compliant My older daughter needed only a stern look to elicit corrected behavior from her. The undisciplined one is sassy, mean, does what she wants with no consequence, from hitting her mom to talking back to her grandparents. I didn't get "spanked" as a child, I got the snot knocked out of me!
What Really Happens When Parents Spank Kids | Psychology Today
There is a point, that is different in every child, where it is no longer a effective means of punishment. According to a study published in the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology, corporal punishment can lead to emotional and behavioral problems down the road. In response to the individual who suggested it was silly to imagine that striking an adult child would be beneficial, I would say the same thing about striking small children. He taught me to always do what is right -- even if no one was looking!! I don't always think it's right, either. Striking any other human being in public or private is considered a prosecutable crime. When they come back all happy and laughing about what a good time they had, they don't expect to run into an angry mom holding a hairbrush and waiting.
Cycles Submitted by Jean on November 27, - 2: But I want to plant this resistance into him so he will be able to protect himself. Do you believe every single thing you read? Regarding the "respect for authority" issue, isn't that all too often an illusion that's actually something low and nasty rooted in fear of those who hold power over them? Forgive yourself and reconnect with your son.